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		<title>Perversity Think Tank by Supervert</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Book:</strong>  <em>Perversity Think Tank</em></p>
<p><strong>Author:</strong>  Supervert</p>
<p><strong>Type of Book:</strong>  Non-fiction, human sexuality, pornography, psychology, philosophy</p>
<p><strong>Why Do I Consider This Book Odd:</strong>  This tiny book&#8217;s arrangement is in itself odd, with a scholarly discussion running across the top of the pages, a more personal narration running across the bottom, and large, black squares over all the pictures.  Then there&#8217;s the content&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Availability:</strong>  Published by Supervert in 2010, you can get a copy here:<br />
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<p><strong>Comments:</strong>  I have a pretty serious book crush on Supervert.  Every now and then you come across an author who seems very much like he or she is on your wavelength, whose words seem like they could have come out of your own brain.  Supervert is one of those authors for me.  I felt a great amount of kinship reading a few of the stories in <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0970497113?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=ireodbo-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957&#038;creativeASIN=0970497113">Necrophilia Variations</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=ireodbo-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=0970497113" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /></em> (and yeah, when you say that, when you admit a book with this particular title spoke to you directly, you are making a certain statement about yourself and now that I am officially a harmless, middle-aged woman, I feel I am safe making any sort of admission I want).  I found myself nodding a lot when reading <em>Perversity Think Tank</em> as the book tried to answer the question of &#8220;What is Perversity?&#8221;</p>
<p>If I didn&#8217;t know this before reading the book, I now understand that defining perversity can be very much akin to holding mercury but Supervert manages to nail down some interesting perspectives on the topic.  Mostly, I walked away knowing what perversity isn&#8217;t, while marveling that there is another human being on the planet who had thought about the complete narcissism that is involved in reproductive incest, which I will discuss in a moment.</p>
<p>Supervert has a unique insight into perversion. He ran the site <a href="http://pervscan.com/">PervScan</a>, wherein he scoured news for anything with a hint of sexual deviance to it. While this book was inspired by the musings that the PervScan articles inspired, this is not a compilation of the site&#8217;s &#8220;greatest hits&#8221; though a couple of cases are referenced in the book.  Rather, the book uses a couple of cases to ponder what comprises perversion and what does not.  Interestingly, compiling all those stories of strange acts showed Supervert that most of the acts he cataloged were not true perversion.</p>
<blockquote><p>Many of the acts I covered on PervScan &#8211; like the three middle-aged brothers who sexually assaulted their bedridden mother while she lay suffering amid lice, roaches, and fecal matter &#8211; struck me less as perverse than as ignorant, heedless, cruel. There were days when I thought my compendium of deviant doings was nothing more than a catalogue of errors in judgement and lapses in common sense.</p></blockquote>
<p>This was an incredibly important point to me because despite my own self-admitted sympathy for the devil as well as an abiding interest in the bizarre and perverted, even I find myself defining any deviation from the norm, up to and including the worst sexual crimes, as perversion when really what was at work was psychopathy or a sub-normal intellect.</p>
<p>Moreover, as Supervert read more and more examples of sexual oddity, that which had seemed somewhat perverted before now seemed somewhat tame.</p>
<blockquote><p>After you&#8217;ve read about a guy who wants to eat his own penis, you feel like you&#8217;ve pretty much heard it all.  How could mere exhibitionism seem perverted in comparison to a man who wants to fry his genitalia in a pan?</p></blockquote>
<p>I know, this isn&#8217;t the most profound of statements, but it struck me that I don&#8217;t know another single person in real life who speculates on such things, who has, in fact, heard it all to the point that little shocks them and the outre seems positively normal and comforting.  I often feel as if my interest in perversion is a perversion in and of itself.  I wish I knew more people who know the ins and outs of the <a href="http://www.francesfarmersrevenge.com/stuff/serialkillers/meiwes.htm">Armin Meiwes case</a> or all the details about <a href="http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/notorious_murders/classics/sharon_lopatka/1.html">Sharon Lopatka</a> because it would make me happy to know other suburbanites with gray hair and festive glasses and a love of kittens wouldn&#8217;t throw me out of their houses if they knew what goes into and on in my head.  </p>
<p>Supervert discusses all the various meanings of perversion.  He discusses one of the first philosophical interpretations of perversion, an easy conclusion that many have reached before &#8211; that sexual perversion is any act that thwarts reproduction.  Easy enough but it means that a married couple who have sex after the wife has experienced menopause are therefore perverts and so that really doesn&#8217;t fit.  Additionally, Supervert brings up Sade, who wrote in <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1604594187?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=ireodbo-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957&#038;creativeASIN=1604594187">The 120 Days of Sodom</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=ireodbo-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=1604594187" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /></em> about a libertine who wanted to masturbate and ejaculate on the crowning head of an infant as it was born.  This perversion can only happen because of human reproduction so really, in a sense, this shows the complete creativity involved in true perversion and how useless most definitions of perversion can be.  Freud defined perversity as any sex act that diverted the focus of sex from the sex organs.  Sort of limiting and pretty much results in everyone who has ever done anything sexual with their hands or mouths in the bedroom in being labeled a pervert and the more the merrier, right?  But sweeping generalizations like these do no one any good in understanding the true nature of perversion.</p>
<p>The book brings up all the usual suspects like Sade but then it also discusses those whose opinions on sex are suspect at best and therefore were hilarious to me.  The sad, misogynistic, sexually inept Schopenhauer makes an appearance, to my delight.  Evidently, he had a foot in a pre-Freud camp that indicated that perversion was anything not involving sex organs because it ensured that those who had bad genes that made them perverts could not reproduce and pass on their defects.  Which makes my lack of children somewhat interesting but then again, as Supervert reminds us, Sade had three children.  Oh lord, I hate Schopenhauer.  His ideas of failsex can only inspire derision in me, his very name makes me groan, and mileage, of course, always varies, but I rather enjoyed the times in this book when I felt provoked.</p>
<p>It was during the discussion on incest that my book crush on Supervert was confirmed.  The first part was obvious, but nothing that I had ever really considered.  Supervert discusses the perversion in incest and comes to an interesting conclusion. The inbred yokel who has sex with his daughter is likely not doing it in order to violate the taboo of inter-familial sex.  Rather, he is doing it because she is likely the only available girl.  It is an act of availability that while repellent, is not all that perverse.  It is a far different thing for a father to desire his daughter because she is his daughter, or a mother to desire her son because he is her son.  A key part of perversion, as far as Supervert is concerned, is consideration for the act itself and not just the easy, sloppy depravity that makes a person simply have sex with whomever or whatever is closest.</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s the thing that surprised me anyone else had considered (and secretly thrilled me because when one entertains dark and perverted thoughts, one never thinks anyone else would even in a million years think the same thing): the narcissism present in deliberate incest.  </p>
<blockquote><p>A libertine doesn&#8217;t molest his daughter because she just happens to be there.  A libertine molests his daughter because he consciously wants to create a being who is both his child and his grandchild &#8211; and still a future sex object itself. Then he molests that daughter/granddaughter hybrid to obtain another new being who is child, grandchild, great grandchild &#8211; and still sex object. </p></blockquote>
<p>Once you get to a certain point in this process, the end result is an appalling creation that is more or less masturbation by proxy.</p>
<blockquote><p>The incestuous libertine approaches ever closer to a reproductive act whose result is a child 100% himself, and yet that ultimate point is always deferred by increasingly small percentages.  The libertine can never quite dispense with the shred of genetic material that belongs to the maternal line, and yet the fact remains that, by fucking the offspring of his own offspring, he is inevitably fucking more and more of himself.</p></blockquote>
<p>It is this awareness of the act and the results that is quite important when considering perversion:</p>
<blockquote><p>And that, as Sade recognized, is one of the most striking characteristics of perversity: it is deliberate, self-conscious, pellucid.  Its hallmark is&#8230; its intentionality&#8230;  The libertine is able to reflect on his unwholesome activities.  Self-awareness makes his pleasures all the greater.</p></blockquote>
<p>Though Supervert discusses much, much more than these conclusions in the book, I think this is quite important and possibly the greatest revelation in this book for me.  Too often people with dire sexual compulsions are labeled perverts, people with little control over their acts or those governed by a need that is innate and defies any sort of consciousness.  Perversion, as a philosophical approach to depravity, requires far more than a compulsive need or a thoughtless action.</p>
<p>The only part of this book that I found the least bit disagreeable was Supervert&#8217;s passage about how rape could possibly be a part of the evolutionary process.</p>
<blockquote><p>Evolutionary biologists have pointed out that natural selection provides an obvious impetus for it, insofar as rape improves the rapist&#8217;s chances for reproductive success.  That my friend was raped in Central Park was symbolic: in the greatest swath of grass and trees in New York, she was subject to the Darwinism of her attackers.</p></blockquote>
<p>Back when I first heard this particular line of thinking many years ago in an anthropology class in college, I was skeptical.  Even 100,000 years ago, didn&#8217;t women understand the causality between sex and pregnancy even if they did not understand the exact mechanism? Raped women often don&#8217;t look kindly on the offspring of rape.  If they couldn&#8217;t abort, those children were likely abandoned or exposed, or were raised less kindly.  The men in societies where their spouses were subject to rape would also have reacted poorly.  The rapists were likely subject to physical violence that made them rethink any impulse for rape, if they survived the violence.  Or they would get kicked out of the tribe they lived in and would have had a far harder time at surviving at all.  If there was ever a genetic code for rape to ensure one&#8217;s genetic material lived on, it likely got killed off when the offspring of such unions were subject to abortion, abandonment or resentful care and the men themselves violently neutralized before they could spread very much seed at all. Even if women only became aware of how pregnancy happened during recorded history, I would think that societal reactions to rape would still be enough to wipe out any gene that causes rape within a dozen or so generations.  Or that was my knee jerk reaction.  <a href="http://www.newsweek.com/2009/06/19/why-do-we-rape-kill-and-sleep-around.html">It seems there are some who know quite a bit of evolutionary psychology who agree.  </a>  But regardless of which side is correct, is interesting to me, analyzing what about our sexual natures, dark and not-so-dark, can be seen as innate or learned, or just the result of a bad brain.</p>
<p>Supervert&#8217;s book is full of enlightened explanations of the philosophy and reasoning behind some sex acts even I can look at and call bizarre, or perverted, and at times, the best parts of the book were his discourses on the blacked-out images.  These images were varied and covered a lot of ground. Like men who like to ejaculate into a woman&#8217;s eye.  Like a pornographer who wanted to make a skin flick out of a woman giving birth.  Like an almost touching picture of a couple on a bed, the man smoking, the woman lying on her side, staring at the man.  Like the solipsistic nature of POV porn.  Like his reaction to a simple painting and how this painting shows clearly how alone the pervert is in his or her own mind.  Like a piece of art that provokes thoughts as to whether or not autoerotic asphyxiation is a perveme (he discusses pervemes in the book &#8211; perversion memes).  Like a bestiality film clip that proved there is indeed a noise that can inspire disgust.  Yeah, I think I most enjoyed Supervert&#8217;s reactions to the art he deliberately blocks out of the book.</p>
<p>This book isn&#8217;t for everyone but if you are a fellow traveler on certain roads, you will want to get this book.  If you do  read it or have already read it, I&#8217;d love to know how you read it.  I read the &#8220;top half&#8221; from beginning to end, then read the &#8220;bottom half.&#8221;  I paused during the bottom half to read the descriptions that accompanied the blacked-out pictures.  I read the book in this manner twice, then looked up the pictures (or as many as were available online) and reread the descriptions.  For a small, straightforward book, it requires a lot of attention.  While definitely salacious enough to inspire prurient thoughts in those who are simply in this for the titillation, the book is not technically pornography, because the goal is to inspire interaction and thought rather than sexual arousal.  In fact, the way the book is set up demands interaction and close attention and is a book I will probably reread again soon.  And though I am unsure if the book available on Amazon has the same brown dust jacket as the copy I have, even without it this book is quite lovely.  Books as small works of art are rare these days.</p>
<p>(And in the name of all that is sane, of course I don&#8217;t advocate incest, pedophilia, bestiality or any non-consensual sex act.  It horrifies me that in the course of merely reviewing a philosophical discussion of perversity I have to make this point clear, but perverse thoughts do not equal advocacy nor do they indicate an unsound mind.  Any comment along the line of OMG GROCE or a juvenile assertion that exploring these issues is a <em>de facto</em> advocacy of harmful acts will not get deleted because I will be forced to mock such comments because I am weary, oh lord am I weary. )</p>
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		<title>Abducted: How People Come to Believe They Were Kidnapped by Aliens by Susan A. Clancy</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Book: </strong> <em>Abducted: How People Come to Believe They Were Kidnapped by Aliens</em><br />
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Author:</strong> Susan A Clancy</p>
<p><strong>Why I Consider This Book Odd:</strong>  I heard a review of this book on some NPR morning program, possibly Bryant Park though I can no longer recall, and the burning need to read this book got ignited.  Honestly!  A Harvard Ph.D. psychology candidate angered people with her findings in memory recovery in sexual abuse and for her next project branched out to study people abducted by aliens.  Gah!  I love, love, love it when science gets involved in the odd.  But yeah, the whole premise &#8211; researching people who have tales of abduction and then explaining how these beliefs came to be &#8211; was odd.  The book proved more fascinating than odd, but it&#8217;s odd enough, believe me.</p>
<p><strong>Type of work:</strong> Non-fiction, psychological study</p>
<p><strong>Availability: </strong> Published in 2005 by the President and Fellows of Harvard College, it is still in print.  You can order a copy here:<br />
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<p><strong>Comments: </strong> This book was a hoot!  I am a sucker for anything wherein I get to read people&#8217;s profiles (especially psychological profiles of less than normal people) and this book did not disappoint.  But ultimately, this is not a book to groove on the oddness, because Clancy&#8217;s explanations of how people really do come to believe they were kidnapped by aliens seem sound to a layperson like me and make for fascinating and not always odd reading.  But never fear!  The book is peppered with enough oddness to make it worth a read from those who can only stomach the oddest of the odd.</p>
<p>Clancy, whose studies into the repressed memories of sexual abuse survivors, led her into a situation where she was damned if she did and damned if she didn&#8217;t.  If she revealed her findings that sexual abuse survivors were susceptible to idea implantation, she potentially diminished the real, horrific impact of abuse in the survivor community.  In order to show the sound methodology of her study, she would end up harming people, as well as causing harm in communities where all too many people are not believed.  It was a political and social minefield, one that eventually caused her to be condemned by those in her very field.</p>
<p>The trouble she experienced in sexual abuse recovered memories caused her to move on to a different study &#8211; how is it exactly people think they were snatched up by space aliens.  Her research ultimately will not show a reader of psychology books anything new, as abductees are subject to the same influences that anyone who develops odd ideas experiences:  Media, night terrors, a willingness to read Whitley Strieber, group delusion and reinforcement, a personal sense of isolation and a need to belong somewhere and an insistence that the commonality of the experiences proves all play a part in making people think they were abducted by aliens.  Actually, Clancy utterly disproves that last argument &#8211; abductions must be true because all our experiences are the same &#8211; by showing that they are in fact, not the same, varying with vastly different details (in Chapter 4).</p>
<p>This is a book that could have descended into farce and while Clancy has no aversion to humor and writes in an at times sardonic manner, she respectfully shows the rich diversity of those with abduction stories.  They cut across age, economic class and sex, never falling into stereotypes of drunk rednecks wondering what happened during that lost period after the case of beer disappeared and coming up with ET and a probe, or kooky new-agers who long for abduction like a lost lover.  Even though elements of those stereotypes make up some who spoke of their experiences for this book, the abductees defy stereotype and Clancy respects the dignity of all her subjects, even the ones whose tales are violent and unsettling, even those who evidently stank up her car with their body odor.</p>
<p>Elements of this book were hilarious, often unintentionally so.  I still giggle like a schoolgirl at the description one man gave of his abductor, a naked, gorgeous alien with cherry red public hair.  Cherry.  Red.  Pubic. Hair.  Goodness.  Some of the stories have insane logic in them that makes sense sort of until you actually think about them.  Like the woman who saw three lovely women in flowing dresses and decided that after seeing them she needed to maintain a macrobiotic diet.  These women were omens.  What flowing dresses on pretty women have to do with a macrobiotic diet is irrelevant.  Just go with it.  This is one of the milder examples of insane logic in the book, logic that makes sense in a way until you choke it down with rational thought.  Some are less cute, like the man who believes his children half alien, the product between him and a non-human female, children he cannot see but knows are there.  How his wife feels about step-kids in the ether is not known.  It&#8217;s a short leap from silly logic to bad ideas that are quite malignant for relationships and sound functioning.</p>
<p>Overall, this is an interesting read, but for anyone who has gone through a dark patch in his or her life &#8211; failed relationships, death of loved ones, loss of job, loss of health &#8211; some of the experiences these abductees endure are similar to the ones that cause many of us to drink, take Xanax, or find the Lord.  Belief in UFO abduction numbs the pain or it creates a sense of belonging to something inexplicable but mystical and bigger than you.  It was very easy, once Clancy laid it all out, how every one of her subjects made it from point A to point B.</p>
<p>This was a quick, easy read and I recommend it.  And do I believe in alien abduction?  Like my belief in the paranormal &#8211; sort of, but not really.  I&#8217;m still looking for rational reasons for the weirdnesses that have gone down in my own life.  I love the odd, and live it at times, but my higher brain makes it hard for me to buy into ghosts and alien abduction.  As always, your mileage may, and probably will, vary.  Regardless, this was a fun book that wallowed in the odd and I quite enjoyed it.</p>
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